I grew up with little to Zer0 discipline in a broken home with no healthy masculine Male figures ever. The women involved in my raising played both roles because they had to, even the one that was married followed suit because her husband much like most of us men never truly grew up. We men are very prone to, if we have a mother figure and she’s even slightly a coddler become what society refers to as a “mama’s boy.” However, the relationship between mothers and sons due to the imbalance in the mother-father relationship by default takes a huge toll.
The lack of understanding meaning not being aware of all contributing factors allows in fear and doubt which transform into different forms of imbalances I.e; codependency, manipulation, self-destructive behaviour, obsession/addiction and control to name a few. We end up NEEDING (meaning our skewed ideas + actions reflect that immaturity and lack of emotional independence on a deep level) a “mommie” so much that we turn our g/f + wives into our mothers. I personally realize this is exactly what I’ve in one way or another with all my relationships, especially my marriage.
“Truth hurts” This statement is very valid only because we grow up training ourCELLves to numb away + suppress anything that we don’t want to FEEL or that may be too much/overwhelming or that we just were not taught how to process… that’s a vast amount of experiences left in aVOIDance causing great detriment to our overall health. Most imbalances that lead to harsher lessons in life, happen because of the lack of truth being brought to situations, and by truth, I mean big-picture truth. Big-picture awareness can only come out of having an understanding of energy -the building blocks of everything in existence, our subconscious, which runs 90% of our mind/systems, and the cycles historically on repeat. Steps that are crucial on the journey of Cell/self awareness + evolution.
-J