Standing out from the status quo or societal norms may cause others to feel uncomfortable. There is only a two-dimensional understanding of competition and comparison in the mind. The concept of oneness has yet to be fully understood, and as a result, the feeling that this is different is sparked and questions are subsequently raised. Are they right or am I wrong? The problem lies in the fact that, in that limited thinking, it is very black and white, ignoring all of what lies in between the contributing factors, as one must be correct, and the other must be incorrect. Rather than bridge the gap that has caused confusion and questioning by learning and finding ways of relating, find a way to find common ground. In adopting the mindset of everyone being a version of you, you develop a great deal of compassion, empathy, and understanding of the human experience, resulting in dramatically different ways of thinking, feeling, and acting toward others when you accept them as a part of you. Irrespective of how you feel about this particle, it is part of a much bigger concept of the origins of consciousness and the development of our own history.
The act of rejecting a piece of ourselves will only lead to a hole in our cellular makeup and a division between the feminine and masculine principles that comprise our yin and yang natures. That doesn't mean some boundaries will have to be set with those versions of ourselves who choose to live life with less lifestyles, beliefs, and attachments, hosting the energy of others, or creating alternative stories and versions of reality. Managing all of our versions is imperative. As a result, if you open the door on someone from your past and they appear to be in exactly the same space, nothing has changed, no evolution has taken place, and they are unwilling to grow, we can gather all the information we need about this version of ourselves. Ask yourself why this version of yourself remains stuck or stagnant. The best thing to do is to shut the door quietly, walk away, set boundaries and work with the version from within. It is simply a matter of allowing all versions of our cells to find their independence. This will enable them to develop the character and adversity that they will need to thrive and mature. As much as we can support, if a relationship remains imbalanced and lessons are not being learned, it may be detrimental to each other's health to force rather than allow what needs to be done to flow naturally.
Constant awareness of our cellular state comes from observing and managing our own ideas, thoughts, feelings, and actions, consciously and subconsciously. This was healthy programming for kids, babies, and children that we need. Rather than listening to what we hear, we act based on what we see. This is the primitive part of the brain, which is responsible for the saying "monkey see, monkey do". Involve them, teach them about mind, body, and spirit care. What's important is that the parent is self-disciplined, has personal experiences and practices, and has a strong foundation of morals and values. This can be challenging if the example was not set or met by one's parents. In the early decades of our society, when girls so young were married off, vile norms and treatment have definitely been present controlling women, our bodies, and our abilities. And with that said, it's the feminine energy in all that needs huge exploration, understanding, healing, and expansion out of its very low-conscious states.
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