Spoonful of Staceyism - B e Y o u r s e l f

We are told from a young age to be yourself, but as we grow one becomes more aware of how we are pressured/conditioned into being that one person everyone else wants us to be. 

That girlfriend.
That best friend.
That sister.
That daughter.
That adult.
That mom. 

When one comes to the realization that they are responsible for their own life and begins to accept responsibility one can begin to live in their truth and manifest the reality in which they truly desire. 

We always have a choice and we let other people make these decisions for us or fail to decide. Doing nothing is also a choice. We fail to make choices because we lack in clarity, trust, and confidence. The emotion that holds us back from being ourselves and taking responsibility for our choices is fear. Fear of failure, fear of disappointment, fear of looking silly, fear of pain, etc. We label experiences as good or bad, we place preferences, I like this/I don't like that. We set unrealistic expectations. We attach ourselves to a certain plan/outcome. 
Essentially, we humans get in the way of our own divine power, highest truth and being just that ourselves.

"Don't change so people like you. BE YOURSELF and the right people will l o v e the real you."

(~*~) Namastacey xo

Spoonful of Staceyism - E m p a t h

Have you ever wondered why people who are strangers or people you hardly know open up to you and share their most trusted thoughts? Do you have an instant connection with animals? Are you unable to watch violence, cruelty, or tragedy on television or in the movies because your soul just can’t bear it? Do you have an instant knowing about the character of the people you meet upon first meeting them? Are you highly spiritual and find the physical world and everything in it heavy? Are you often tired and have physical ailments that cannot be medically explained? If you answered, “yes” to any of these questions you may be an “empath.

Empaths are people who are highly sensitive to the energy and the emotions of the people, animals, and sometimes even the spiritual imprints that exist around them. Some are even sensitive to the energy of plants. This extreme sensitivity applies to the familiar as well as the unfamiliar; people we are intimately close with and total strangers. We experience the world around us and feel what other people are feeling through our extraordinarily heightened senses and keen intuitions. We often internalize the feelings of others without being aware we are doing it and interpret those feelings as being our own.

In our linear world we have given titles and qualities to that we are experiencing and can not understand. Anxious and introvert being the two I have experienced. As I too 'suffered' through a multitude of challenges before my awakening into the understanding of my Empathic Self. I grew up with a knowing there was more to life than that in which I was being shown but was strongly trapped in the limitations of my conditioning's, karma, society, fear based egoic mind. 
If you like me are empathic, you have a mission as a human to step into your power. Anxiousness can simply be our physically body communicating to us. I aim to aspire all awakening empaths to find their truth and to learn how to take care of their super magical empathic selves. Is it time to step into your power?


Let me be the light that ignites your kindling inner excitement, your awakening, your truth.

(~*~) Namastacey xo